So I've been in New Orleans all week. This place is an absolute den of iniquity...I've never really seen anyplace like it. The style and architecture of the place is really pretty, but at the root it's really about drinking, partying, and totall sleezy stuff (I will spare the details, but it's been totally over the top in the worst way - worst than Vegas to me).
Anyway, these events always mean the following has happened a lot: I go to parties to network and socialize because that's what we do in business. And of course, since I don't drink, I always look a little out of place. Happened again tonight when we went to a really interesting, yummy local place for dinner and of course everyone was ordering shots, beers, etc and asking me what I wanted. Then, I went to a "casino night" where booze was flowing like the River Jordan (they even had booze flavored Icee's). When I mentioned at the bar that I wanted a Diet Coke, the two guys I was with said in unison "what, are you LDS?" To which I always say "absolutely I am". I think people are always a little surprised but respectful. And I am always proud for who and what I am.
It's also nice to be in places like this because it reinforces my beliefs and commitments. I mean, if I wanted to I could go and do anything and no one would ever know. My friends even asked if I wanted to go to a strip club the other night. But it's so easy to say no and I'm glad that I have no desire whatsoever in these things. And when I'm surrounded by people whose idea of the perfect party is an open bar, I'm happy that the only place I want to be is at home with my beautiful girls doing nothing at all. Right now I think my head is in a good place - not perfect, but I have some parts of the puzzle in line.
The one thing I really hate about travelling is of course being away from the girls. I'm busy, and their life goes on whether I'm there or not. So we end up having brief little chats on the phone - but nothing meaningful. It's always a little "how's your day", "whatcha doing", etc. It's not like being home, which I really hate.
It made me think a little bit about prayer. I think a lot of times my prayers are light conversations...not the really good, deep, meaningful relationships type stuff that Heavenly Father wants. It made me think that he probably really wants these chats to be more personal, and that's something I need to work on.